You’re here because something hurts, something feels off — or you want to build something new. And you want to know one thing: can I actually help?
Read my story — radical, unfiltered truth — and decide for yourself if I’m your guy.
In person in Berlin, or online worldwide in four languages.
Hi, I’m Alek. Most people are living a life their past chose for them. I’ll help you take it back.
I was born in Luxembourg to a 16-year-old who couldn’t love me and grew up in a family where pain was passed from one generation to the next. I left home at 16, lived in nine countries, became an award-winning athlete, built successful businesses and made millions in my twenties. From the outside, it looked like I had escaped my past.
But many people discover that success does not automatically heal shame. Maybe you know that feeling too: your life looks fine on paper, yet something still feels missing, disconnected or not fully yours. Sometimes, no matter how successful you are, you still have no idea who you are.
In 2009 my grandmother, the woman who raised me, died, and the part of me that knew how to keep going seemed to die with her. The business collapsed, then the rest of my life followed. I went through self-inflicted HIV, addiction, homelessness and had to do things only God, the devil and I know about. I had to literally survive, no matter how.
For a long time, the shame of those years controlled me. Then I realised something that changed everything: I had to make a decision — either become a permanent resident, or be a visitor who could leave. I chose the latter.
You do not need to have lived my life to recognise yourself in it. Your pain may look quieter. It may be the marriage you are afraid to leave, the parent you still cannot forgive, the business you never dared to start, the addiction no one sees, or the constant feeling that you are performing a life instead of living it. Shame wears many faces.
I do not believe in pretending. I do not believe in toxic positivity. And I do not believe that your past has the final word.
If you are functioning but not truly living, if you are carrying a story you have never been able to say out loud, or if you are tired of repeating the same patterns and want to build a life that finally feels like yours, then we should talk.
Whatever you carry — old pain, a crisis, a relationship that needs repairing, or a dream you buried years ago — bring it. Judgement is not part of who I am. And rebuilding does not require perfection. It requires honesty and the willingness to let go and restructure, step by step, authentically, with the new identity that we will build together.
"I gave birth to my son at 17. I wasn't just absent for him — I was a bad mother his whole life. I rejected him, I watched him struggle, I watched him unable to develop self-love. He nearly lost his life, and still, I couldn't be there. Then, at 65, I came across Alek. He showed me, in a way no one else ever had, what it truly means to parent. He understood me because he carried a story similar to my son's — and that's why his words cut through my walls. Through the work we did, I found the courage to contact my son. It wasn't a long call, maybe ten minutes. But behind it were hours of self-growth. In those minutes, I was finally able to tell him the truth. He heard me. And even more importantly — I heard him. And for the first time, I was also able to hear myself. We're not in touch now, even after that call. But I know he got me. I know he felt me. And for the first time in my life, I forgave myself. That forgiveness has set me free."
M.J. · Luxembourg
HOW I WORK
WHAT I HELP WITH
Life and all its real problems.
Whatever’s got you feeling off, stuck, or not yourself — from the everyday to the darkest corners most people won’t touch — nothing is off-limits.
HOW IT WORKS
There’s one way in: book a free call. We give each other 12–24 hours to reflect, and if we match, I build you a programme of your own. Then the work is simple and hard at once: radical honesty. I mirror back what you can’t yet see and help you hear the thing you’ve been avoiding — the real reason you keep landing in the same place. I’ve lived worse than anything you’ll say to me, so there’s nothing you can’t bring. Building a business? Same procedure, different goal.
You leave able to let go of what’s been running you — and finally live it as your own.
WHAT IT COSTS
Simple: €150 a pop, sold in packages — real change isn’t a single session. Most people need around ten hours to really take off; the smallest is three. And the after-work matters as much as the work: for a few months we meet once or twice a month, so you stay accountable to your decision.
So if something’s been off for too long — book the free call, and let’s find out if I’m your guy.
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